One night, while sleep was drifting me away, he gently asks me “Why do you love a dull person like me when there are so many guys out there that are more exciting and better than I am?” I simply answered “I can always close my eyes so I won’t see things I don’t want to see, but I can never close my heart to feel what I don’t want to feel.”
Simple but true, though, oftentimes in a relationship, we always complicate things. Not because it delights us but because that’s how we required it to be. We always think of what others got to say when we love who we think the “wrong person” or in other words, we should only love someone according to the “standards of the society” which leads to hurting ourselves or the ones we truly love, outcome is we more often than not, blame love for our heartaches and failures whilst the truth is; love is the most wonderful thing one would ever experience in his/her entire lifetime. Loving and being loved in return is an overwhelming feeling that has no definition in dictionaries can be found and is the greatest thing a person can give and/or receive.
The Question is, why do we always have to find faults, excuses and reasons when we broke ours or someone else’s heart, when the simple explanation for this is us looking for a perfect someone which doesn’t exist because however or wherever we try to find that perfect person we will never ever find them as no one is such.
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly and giving them the best you can whatever outcome there may be in the future. Life is short; why would we waste our time complicating things and hurting people around us, isn’t it much better if we can simply love a person by who or what they maybe because loving someone as a whole is an ideal experience that will remain in our hearts and minds as long as we live.
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